Meet Anjelica
Embodiment and Intimacy Guide
Anjelica utilizes breath, sound, and movement to awaken people into their authentic expression. By taking radical responsibility for her life. Anjelica has been able to completely transform her own life. From being a self-abandoning people pleaser to a person with healthy boundaries, self-esteem, and courage.
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I grew up in a catholic family in California, which led to a belief that my sensuality and sexuality were something to be ashamed of. After losing my virginity by force at the age of 14 I believed I was a bad person because something like that doesn’t happen to good girls. This traumatic experience made me hypervigilant about my behavior. I thought I had to be a watered-down version of myself to stay safe. This was when I began to cut off my connection to my authentic self. I found myself in a toxic marriage with a partner I didn’t feel safe with.
After the life-changing experience of giving birth, along with a divorce shortly after, I had a deep realization of the loss of my identity and lack of community. I had an understanding that there was more to being alive than I was being taught or shown. My ideals about having to be a “good woman” to keep myself safe began to loosen its grip.
I started on my own journey with a curiosity about the importance of deep connection, and belonging, and why I didn’t have it in my life.
This led me to the exploration of pleasure and my spiritual awakening.
I began to gradually unlock the truth of who I am through tantric practices, meditation, shamanic healing and sexual intimacy. Along the way, I discovered the power of reclaiming my comfort through scene negotiations and the intricate dance between power, surrender, and eroticism found in BDSM. Exploring these parts of myself which I had once thought to be shameful, led to a more empowered experience of my life. I embraced sensual kink as a profound path of self-discovery.
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My mission is to add beauty and significance to the lives of others. I help people to discover their true selves and live a fulfilling life. My specialty includes personal coaching and support for women who have experienced a loss of identity.
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